Weight fluctuation got you down?
One of the most frequent replies when I tell someone that I'm a personal stylist is, "I'd love to do that. I'll definitely call you after I lose X number of pounds." Ugh. And, the holidays are the worst when it comes to weight gain.
With the exception of my very slim husband who has some magical gene, there are very few people who don't experience some sort of weight fluctuation. Sadly, as we gain, we tend to stop investing in ourselves and taking pride in our look.
As a member of this club, I thought I might share some strategies for feeling good about how you look at any weight.
1. Return on Investment, baby. Go straight for services that enhance your look without harping on your size. Perhaps it is time to hit the salon rather than coloring your own hair. Hit a make-up counter and discover a lip color or mascara that livens up your face. Whatever it is that makes you feel incredible when you walk into a room -- do it.
2. Remove the obstacles. If this were a weight loss blog, they'd chat about removing obstacles to your weight loss. I'm not in that business. And, as far as I'm concerned, you can look phenomenal at any weight or size. The only way you'll know that is to remove any clothes that don't fit or flatter you RIGHT NOW. That doesn't mean donate everything you own. Just move them to another closet or bin. Every morning when you look at your closet, you should only see items that fit and flatter you.
3. Buy some new pieces that will transform how you feel. Everyone seems to feel that they shouldn't buy clothes until they've lost the weight. Well, losing weight is a struggle without feeling like you look terrible. Know your body type and dress accordingly. Gain weight in your hips or stomach? How about investing in an a-line skirt that skims your frame or a knit top that draws attention upward? A jersey pencil skirt can be worn higher (when you are heavier) or lower (when you are slimmer) and is flattering for your figure. Gain weight all over?
4. Accessorize. Accessories fit no matter your shape and an incredible accessory can be eye-catching and confidence- building. Add a bold necklace to draw attention to your face. Invest in a new skinny belt to highlight your waist. Sure, your waist may not be the same size that it once was, but there are multiple holes for a reason and if you are an hourglass shape, showing off your waist is essential. Try some heels. Regardless of my weight, a little lift helps me feel like I've lost 5 pounds.
5. Undergarments are your friend. Speaking of those 5 pounds, a pair of slimming leggings or the proper bra transforms your body and your look.
6. Try a new trend. If you are feeling a little down about your figure, it may not feel like the right time to try a new fashion trend. But, it's always nice to remind yourself that you are alive. Feeling current makes you feel better. It just does. Enjoy it. Have a good time.
7. Monochromatic is magic. Be sure that you outfits aren't breaking up your body. A light top, dark pants and colored shoes breaks your body into three different zones. If you are feeling uninspired by your figure, that isn't going to remedy the situation. In contrast, wearing a burgundy sweater with a burgundy pencil skirt translates to one elongated put-together woman.
8. Don't be so hard on yourself. This is the time of year when pretty much everyone is sharing cookies with you. The key to style is confidence. Give yourself the tools to dress your body well and the rest will follow.